Well lets start from the most classic sentence about objective: Everybody should have objective for live to to direct his/her way, to decide for best, to draw and follow his/her career path. Basically objective is to be happy.
I observe objectives of people get shaped according to the repercussions of people against to experiences they get. They determine their objective of life while they are studying, working or falling in love with someone else themselves. Way of finding or determining an objective is so usual, it's like one of life cycle requirements.
Then I have a question confusing me so much: "why aren't we always happy with our objectives?"
The answer is a bit funny but based on reality completely: confliction of objectives with our significant others. Sometimes each member of families may have different ideas, hobbies and also purposes about life. It is so usual again. They can still live together or not together but they do not have to get apart completely because each member knows they will love each other wherever they are or whatever they choose. But, can we say same thing for our lovers?
Answer is based on variability. Love is a hot coffee, you should not let it be cold if you wish to smell and drink it in pleasure. So, objectives should be same direction in a way. So you may be hurt when the objective of her/him is drawn before you, you may stay with him as a guest or audience but you may not be a part of objective of his/her life.
To sum up, if you are late for him/her life, you are just late, you know there is no way to return back to the time.
I can write longer and longer about that but I have to write report. Noticed a moment ago that, issue is about being secondary of his/her life when he/she has a priority in your life.
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